Comments on: Pimpin ain’t easy…but some Africans have to do it http://divalutionary.wordpress.com/2008/07/08/pimpin-aint-easybut-some-africans-have-to-do-it/ A divalutionary's journey to self-discovery Wed, 23 Jul 2008 23:51:04 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: ShaCarolyn http://divalutionary.wordpress.com/2008/07/08/pimpin-aint-easybut-some-africans-have-to-do-it/#comment-88 ShaCarolyn Wed, 09 Jul 2008 16:15:22 +0000 http://divalutionary.wordpress.com/?p=63#comment-88 People cheat..they always have! I firmly believe people keep cheating b/c folks are still selling that " they're WITH me at night who cares what happens during the day" bull! I want monogomy and thats just that. Ppl cheat because they want to and its WRONG! If you want to be with more than one let me know and you can move on. The funny thing is that ppl that cheat, never want you to cheat! I've heard of the turn the other cheek thing...NOT HAPPENING! Everybody plays the fool sometimes but I'll be damned if I make it my occupation. Im not sure about anyone else, but I believe I deserve to have my partner all to myself. Having many male friends..and I do mean MANY, men NEVER stay with that woman who turns the other cheek. They have no respect for her b/c she allows it and when they are ready to SETTLE DOWN (key phrase) they marry the one that doesn't stand for that bull. Men like a challenge, they hate to spend their money...but they wanna know you're not cheap. Double standard run rampant, but I can not stand for the cheating thing! People cheat..they always have! I firmly believe people keep cheating b/c folks are still selling that ” they’re WITH me at night who cares what happens during the day” bull! I want monogomy and thats just that. Ppl cheat because they want to and its WRONG! If you want to be with more than one let me know and you can move on. The funny thing is that ppl that cheat, never want you to cheat! I’ve heard of the turn the other cheek thing…NOT HAPPENING! Everybody plays the fool sometimes but I’ll be damned if I make it my occupation. Im not sure about anyone else, but I believe I deserve to have my partner all to myself. Having many male friends..and I do mean MANY, men NEVER stay with that woman who turns the other cheek. They have no respect for her b/c she allows it and when they are ready to SETTLE DOWN (key phrase) they marry the one that doesn’t stand for that bull. Men like a challenge, they hate to spend their money…but they wanna know you’re not cheap. Double standard run rampant, but I can not stand for the cheating thing!

]]> By: divalutionary http://divalutionary.wordpress.com/2008/07/08/pimpin-aint-easybut-some-africans-have-to-do-it/#comment-87 divalutionary Wed, 09 Jul 2008 08:37:55 +0000 http://divalutionary.wordpress.com/?p=63#comment-87 Yeah, but you know I fell for it right? We'll see what the future holds. Yeah, but you know I fell for it right? We’ll see what the future holds.

]]> By: Nikki http://divalutionary.wordpress.com/2008/07/08/pimpin-aint-easybut-some-africans-have-to-do-it/#comment-86 Nikki Tue, 08 Jul 2008 16:38:29 +0000 http://divalutionary.wordpress.com/?p=63#comment-86 Womp womp....that line was Wiggity-Wiggity- WACK!!! Above all, I have to have honesty in a relationship. If you can't be honest with me, you don't respect me, and therefore I can't be with you. I'd rather you be honest about it (the want/need to be with other people) and let me ponder my options. My decision may hurt both of us, but at least you were honest with me from the jump. Don't make my decision for me. Womp womp….that line was Wiggity-Wiggity- WACK!!!

Above all, I have to have honesty in a relationship. If you can’t be honest with me, you don’t respect me, and therefore I can’t be with you. I’d rather you be honest about it (the want/need to be with other people) and let me ponder my options. My decision may hurt both of us, but at least you were honest with me from the jump. Don’t make my decision for me.

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